Tips and Exercises

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Tips & Exercises

Practical, evidence-based tools to help children and teens manage big emotions, build resilience, and thrive, curated by our clinical experts and trusted national partners.

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Calming Exercises for Children & Families

There are times when we all feel stressed or anxious, children included. Children look to the adults around them for calm, structure, and support. Start here with a guided exercise your whole family can practice together.

For Kids · Ages 7–12

The Power-Up Lab

Feeling good is a skill you can practice, just like reading or soccer! Pick a power-up and give it a try. The more you practice, the stronger your happy, brave, kind brain gets.

🍃 Gratitude Garden
What are you thankful for today? Type it or tap one below, then plant it and watch it grow!
Your garden is empty, plant your first flower!
💙 Kindness Mission
Kindness is a superpower that makes YOU feel good too. Tap for your secret mission!
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Ready for your first mission?
Mission accepted! You're amazing. ⭐
⚡ Superpower Finder
Tap everything that sounds like YOU. Then reveal the superpowers you already have!
🎲 Move-It Dice
Moving your body is one of the fastest ways to feel better. Roll for your challenge!
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For Teens · Ages 13–18

The Reset Deck

Four quick tools for your actual life, no lectures, no login. Real ways to feel better, figure yourself out, and reset when everything's a lot. Pick a card.

🍴 Dopamine Menu
Scrolling gives a quick hit that fades fast. Build a menu of things that actually recharge you, and keep it for when you're bored, low, or stuck.
Tap a few things you enjoy above to build your menu.
🧭 Values Compass
Pick the 3 that matter most to you right now. When life feels confusing, your values point you back toward what's important.
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Your north star:
✨ Three Good Things
Backed by research: writing down three good things from your day, even tiny ones, retrains your brain to notice the good. Do it for a week and see.
    That's three. Nice, that's the whole practice. ✨
    🌙 Wind-Down Builder
    Sleep is the #1 thing that affects your mood, focus, and stress. Pick what sounds good and build a wind-down routine you'll actually use.
    Tap a few above to build your routine.
    For Families · Together Time

    Together Time

    The strongest thing you can build for a child's mental health is connection. These quick activities turn a car ride or dinner into a moment of real closeness. Pick one and share it out loud.

    💬 Conversation Sparks
    Take turns answering, grown-ups too! There are no wrong answers. Tap for a new question anytime.
    Ready for your first question?
    🌹 Rose & Thorn
    Go around and let everyone share all three. It's a beautiful way to really hear each other, especially at dinner or bedtime.
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    Rose
    Something good that happened, a high point of your day.
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    Thorn
    Something hard or frustrating, a low point.
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    Bud
    Something you're looking forward to, a hope for tomorrow.
    Tip: whoever's listening just listens, no fixing, no advice. Feeling heard is the whole gift.
    🤝 Kindness Challenge
    Do this one together as a family. Kindness feels even better when you share it.
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    Ready for your family mission?
    🧻 Gratitude Jar
    Add something good from today, big or small. Watch your jar fill up with your family's good moments.
    Find What You Need

    Browse by age & stage

    Every age handles big feelings differently. Choose an age below and the resources update instantly, from our own programs to the best of the nation's trusted experts in children's mental health.

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    A Way of Being Tip Sheets

    Practical, printable guides for parents and caregivers grounded in trauma-informed care and the HOPE framework.

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    Stages of Development Videos

    Short video guides helping parents understand what's normal at each stage and how to respond with empathy.

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    How to Help Toddlers Manage Big Emotions

    Expert guidance on helping young children navigate tantrums, frustration, and overwhelm with empathy and structure.

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    Understanding Young Children & Trauma

    How young children react to traumatic events, and practical suggestions for how caregivers can help.

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    How to Separate From Clingy Kids

    Strategies for managing separation anxiety at drop-off, bedtime, and beyond.

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    Child First Program

    If your child is under 6 and facing challenges, Child First strengthens the parent-child relationship through home-based care.

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    Zero to ThreeTool

    Calming Your Baby or Toddler

    Practical, developmentally-tuned strategies for soothing infants and toddlers during distress.

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    Feelings Corner: Little Ones

    Playful, interactive feelings tools built for ages 3-6, to do together with a grown-up.

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    Stop Now And Plan (SNAP®)

    Our evidence-based program teaches children 6-11 to stop, think, and choose better responses, with measurable brain changes in 13 weeks.

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    What to Do (and Not Do) When Children Are Anxious

    How to help children face anxiety rather than avoid it, building long-term resilience.

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    How to Model Healthy Coping Skills

    Children learn by watching adults. How to demonstrate mindfulness, deep breathing, and positive self-talk.

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    KidSafe: Empowering Children to Stay Safe

    Teaching children personal safety skills, how to recognize, resist, and report unsafe situations and abuse.

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    Help Kids Cope

    The NCTSN's parent-focused app and resource for helping children cope with disasters, trauma, and everyday stress.

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    ACEs Toolkit

    Understand Adverse Childhood Experiences, what they are, how they affect children, and what you can do.

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    Feelings Corner: Kids & Tweens

    Interactive feelings detective games, calm-down tools, and worry-taming tricks for ages 7-13.

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    Deep Breathing for Kids

    Simple, guided breathing kids can follow along with when big feelings show up.

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    Mental Health Fitness: 5 Skills

    Interactive skills-building for teens and families, practical mental health habits you can practice together.

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    10 Tips for Parenting Anxious Kids

    Expert strategies for helping anxious teens without reinforcing avoidance.

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    School-Based Mental Health Services

    If your teen is struggling at school, our therapists provide support right where they need it.

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    NCTSNGuide

    Understanding Childhood Traumatic Stress

    A comprehensive parent guide, what it is, the best treatments, and what parents can do.

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    Child Mind InstituteArticle

    How to Change Negative Thinking Patterns

    Teaching teens to recognize and reframe negative self-talk, a core CBT skill for anxiety and depression.

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    Counseling & Therapy Services

    When your teen needs more than tips, our outpatient therapy addresses anxiety, depression, trauma, and grief.

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    Feelings Corner: Teens

    Private, no-login regulation tools built for ages 14-18, for real life, stress, and spirals.

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    988 LifelineTool

    988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

    Free, confidential support 24/7 for anyone in emotional distress. Call or text 988, or chat online.

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    A Way of Being with Children

    The cornerstone of our approach, a practical guide for building safe, nurturing relationships grounded in HOPE.

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    Child Mind InstituteArticle

    How to Avoid Passing Anxiety On to Your Kids

    How your own stress management shapes your child's emotional world.

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    Coping with Collective Trauma

    Strategies for parents coping with community-wide traumatic events and supporting children through them.

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    BeKidSafe.org On-Demand Learning

    Free and low-cost online courses on abuse prevention, trauma-informed parenting, and children's mental health.

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    Child Mind InstituteArticle

    Mindful Parenting

    Using mindfulness to take stress and anxiety out of raising kids, everyday strategies that work.

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    Fighting ACEs with HOPE

    Understand the science behind ACEs and positive childhood experiences, and how HOPE changes a child's trajectory.

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    Feelings Corner: For Grown-Ups

    How to help a child through big feelings at any age, plus care for your own well-being.

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    The Science of Positive Childhood Experiences

    The research behind HOPE, how positive experiences buffer adversity and build lifelong resilience.

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    Child Mind InstituteResource

    Child Mind Institute

    The leading independent nonprofit in children's mental health, with hundreds of free articles, guides, and expert resources.

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    National Child Traumatic Stress Network

    The nation's preeminent resource for child trauma education, research, and family support. CFCC is a proud member.

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    HOPE National Resource Center

    The Tufts Medical Center research center behind the HOPE framework, with free resources, trainings, and tools.

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    HealthyChildren.org (AAP)

    The American Academy of Pediatrics' parent resource, trusted guidance on health, development, and well-being.

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    SAMHSAResource

    SAMHSA

    National helpline, treatment locator, and family resources for mental health and substance use.

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    Zero to ThreeResource

    Zero to Three

    Dedicated to the healthy development of infants and toddlers, with evidence-based tools for the earliest years.

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    Harvard CenterResource

    Center on the Developing Child (Harvard)

    World-leading science on brain architecture, serve-and-return, toxic stress, and resilience, with guides, videos, and activities for building strong foundations.

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    Ask Anything, Any Time

    Have a specific question? Meet the HOPE Assistant

    The resources on this page are a wonderful starting point, but sometimes you have a question that's all your own. The HOPE Assistant is a warm, judgment-free place to ask about a child's feelings or behavior, and get guidance rooted in the same science that shapes everything here.

    • Available any time, day or night, no login needed
    • Grounded in the HOPE framework and trauma-informed care
    • A thinking partner for the moments between the tips
    Ask the HOPE Assistant The HOPE Assistant offers guidance and support. It is not a substitute for professional care or a crisis line. In an emergency, call or text 988.
    HOPE Assistant
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    My 4-year-old melts down every morning at daycare drop-off. What can I do?
    That's so common, and so hard. Those big feelings usually mean the separation feels scary, not that anything's wrong. A few gentle, predictable routines can really help…
    Want Tools You Can Actually Use?

    Meet The Feelings Corner

    The resources above are wonderful for reading and learning. The Feelings Corner is where kids and grown-ups can actually do the work, interactive breathing exercises, feeling check-ins, and calm-down tools, built for every age. It's the perfect companion to everything on this page.

    Explore The Feelings Corner
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    Whether you're looking for calming exercises, seeking professional support, or simply trying to understand what your child is going through, Center for Child Counseling is here to help across Palm Beach County.

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